The spiritual leader is someone who is following God as well as influencing others towards that end!
1 Thess 5:23 "Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you completely; and may your whole spirit, soul, and body be preserved blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ."
We ARE a spirit. We HAVE a soul. We LIVE in a body.
Say this..
"I am a spirit. I possess a soul - a mind, will, and intellect. I live in a body. I am not a soul. I am not a body. I am a spirit. "
Don't become stuck in an intellectual mindset.
Don't become locked up in your physical appearance.
Live from within!
We are not made to live from our intellect.
When man fell in the garden they were taken from a spiritual existence to an intellectual existence.
That was never God's original intention for man, we are created in His image and made to live a spiritual existence!